Sad 6Many are experiencing bitter relationships, but how many of them try to find out the reason things are not going the right way?

Many are raised from different homes, influenced by different  culture, custom and tradition. Thus, living with other people sometimes becomes a very difficult issue, proving that it’s often wrong if we lean on our own understanding. Many times you may think you are right but wrong.

It is very common and part of our everyday life, to see beautiful ladies and gentlemen in town and at the offices. The perfume they wear add glamor to their personalities with sweet charm, but many are experiencing bitter relationships, often taking away their happiness and putting them into a tunnel of misery.

The set up of our homes immediately convey the message to a visitor, nature, and character of those dwelling there and the sort of training or life being acquired from it. Truly, the life and character of a person can easily be determined from the home he or she was raised. Thus, are you one of those hard to live with, because of your bad character or the nature of the home you were raised?

If you are a lady or gentleman in your late thirties and still living single, after many stormy affairs, it’s time to sit quietly and ask: Am I a difficult person to live with? If I am, how can I make things better?

Once in Amsterdam, I shared a kitchen with other tenants living in the apartment. More than a dozen times, I witnessed one of the male tenants spitting into the kitchen sink. A kitchen I cut my meat and do my cooking? I was shocked to the extent that I lost the desire to cook in that kitchen. I couldn’t tell him to stop because I don’t want any confrontation.

This went on and on until one of the tenants caught him in the act again and the confrontation escalated into a physical fight. Eventually, the owner of the apartment who wasn’t pleased with what he did, ejected him from that apartment. How can an adult or fully grown man, lack the intelligence to do something like that without noticing that’s completely wrong?

In another development, a man lost his job because his employers said he stinks. He stood his ground to tell his boss that he is the one that stinks. This bad odor is something I knew, but couldn’t tell him, because there are certain things not easy to speak about it. This is a problem which shows that as human beings we do many things and harbored many bad characters we don’t simply see or notice them.

In the early 2000’s, I nearly lost my job at the restaurant I was working at in Antwerp. One of my female colleague’s armpit stinks very bad. I was finding it difficult to work with her, so I bought her a deodorant to use. The deodorant ended up in the hands of her husband, who came to the office with his wife to see my boss. Luckily, I had already discussed this issue with my boss, thus; I was set free. It was a lesson I’m now very careful about the way I approach things. Some kindness may put you into a very big trouble.

Life is wonderful. Life doesn’t mean suffering but chains of sad and bad events, including bad habits and character, have taken its toll on mankind today, making life worthless to some people. We can make life better and worthy to live, by being humble, eliminating foolish pride, be content with whatever we have and give respect and to love our neighbors.

Who Can Explain This Disappearance Objects Phenomenon?

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Misplacing of household items is very common, especially when you are a mother or someone with lot of responsibilities. The mind is actively engaged to something else, while you are doing something else, thus; you end up looking for something, because you can’t remember where you placed it. My mother used to tell me that when you placed an object somewhere with your left hand, you might easily forget where you placed it.

However, misplacing objects is entirely different from miraculously disappearing of personal objects from your home. About three years ago, one of my shoes disappeared without a trace. There are more questions than answers, but some questions and events are hard to explain. How can one of a pair of shoes disappear without a trace? The shoe was never found, so I threw away the other one.

Before the disappearance of the shoe, one of my sons told me he was going out with friends to swim. I said to him to be careful. He said “Daddy I will.” In fact, that day was to be the last day to see my son. He drowned, but his friends who were good swimmers saved his life. When he came home, he slept the whole day, recovering from shock. I can’t explain if this has something to do with the disappearance of one of my shoes.

Now things are getting weird as more personal items are getting missing from my place of abode without explanation. Three weeks ago, both the power cord of my shaving machine and deodorant disappeared from the bathroom. None of my children or wife use them, so I don’t want to accept the fact that something of that sort could happen. Thus; instead of buying new one, I decided to search for them, but all proved abortive. I have no choice, I replaced them.


Are forces at work? Where are the missing objects going? Why did they disappear? Are paranormal activities taking place? I’m struggling to find answers to these questions, when history repeated itself. One of my favourite shoes needs repair. It was with the shoe repairer for a week before I finally had time to go for it. When I came home with the shoe two days ago, I discovered that the other shoe was nowhere to be found.

Are our homes visited by aliens and what are they looking for?  It’s strange to explain or understand this sudden disappearance of objects. If they really mean something, then I want positive results, but if to put me into misery, then I can do everything through Christ who strengthens me. I will fight it. Who can explain this if you experienced this before?