Why Many People Lie About Their Age?

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Is it lack of confidence that forces some women to lie about age?

To lie about something is wrong but  why do many lie about their age and feel happy about it? I was born almost six decades ago. If I look at myself, I see that I am still handsome, above all very strong.

The way I look inspires me so much that I am never afraid to tell anyone that I was born 1957. Whenever I am joining any social media, I never omit the day and year I was born because once you start lying over little things, it will become a habit to lead one to become a chronic liar.

I can understand that due to certain ailments many look older than their real age but if you are a normal healthy person, please stop lying about your age because it can ruin your reputation and shatter your confidence if someone finds your real age.

I remember asking a woman of her age and she asked me to guess. I said she is in her forties but what ensued warned me never to guess a woman’s age again. According to her, she is 27. I understood her reaction immediately, the reason women lie more about their age than men. I don’t know if women feel older than men, even when still in  their twenties.

Asking a man of his age is never taken as an offense but woe unto you to ask a lady of her age. They don’t take such questions likely at all. Many take it as an insult, shameful, or rude to ask of age. If you really feel proud of the way you look, I don’t think it’s necessary to lie about your age

A woman entering into a relationship may lie about her age for many reasons including lack of self-confidence but how is the situation going to be if he discovers your real age? These are some the reasons those who lie about their age must think twice before they lie.

Lying about your age will never make you look younger or older but rather builds your confidence. A man likes a woman because of many things. Even the way a woman may brush her could attract a man. Love is based on truth, sincerity, and honesty not age.

There are many ways to keep yourself beautiful and attractive. Instead of going to the gym to build your body in the right shape, stop drinking heavy if love alcohol, stop smoking if you do smoke and finanly reduce the quantity of the food you eat every day. Drug abuse, excessive eating, drinking and smoking always reduce your age by gradually damaging your health.

I hear people saying that “Life is short, so let’s enjoy.” There is nothing wrong to enjoy yourself but watch carefully what you eat and drink because what goes into your body makes you who you are.

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The Life Law: You Can’t Progress If You Wish Someone’s Downfall

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There are storms in every relationship but prepared to forgive and accept your mistake to build a strong foundation

Like the five fingers which aren’t equal so is life, don’t expect it to be smooth; without problems all your life. Frankly speaking, life is very tough and those that understand the aspects of it are those that normally survive in this difficult world.

Life sometimes becomes more difficult if those that you trust and love turn against you. The more disturbing part is when trying hard to succeed in life but others pray for your failure and often set invincible traps for you to fall into it.

How do you handle this situation if you find yourself trapped in families or friends of deceitful enemies? Your own brother or brothers are against you or your own sisters wouldn’t like to see you over issues that aren’t important.

Jealousy drives people to commit horrible crimes they don’t realize how serious it is until finding themselves at the place they don’t belong to. If you don’t love your partner any longer and he/she leaves don’t be jealous if he/she finds happiness somewhere.

Before you pray for his/her failure, remember that  you don’t love her anymore the reason she left, so don’t be jealous and plan her downfall. Your jealousy will draw you behind and place you in psychological turmoil.

We are all human beings and no one is perfect. Always try to remember the good things family, friends, colleagues and people you don’t know did for you. It is better than dwelling on the mistakes they did. That will make you unhappy and unhealthy.

Hate, jealousy, hypocrisy and anger destroy your health and promote your health towards psychological torture. Always be ready to apologize if you are wrong and put away pride because it will never make you humble but arrogant.

Do Comments And Likes Really Make A Blog Successful?

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International Blog Award from Blogspot to the new health blog, ‘Secrets Of Aids, Ebola, And Other Man-Made Diseases.’

Time and time, we have been told that an article without comments or likes means the author has a problem or the blog isn’t appealing enough to attract readers.

I will prove that these are just imaginations and may be exaggerations because my recent survey reveals that many blogs, for example, health, travel, and tourism heavily influenced or attracted by readers have no comments or likes.

Above all, on August 1, 2016, we (Holland scientist, Johan Van Dongen and the writer Joel Savage) launched a new blog named ‘Secrets Of Aids, Ebola And Other Man-Made Diseases,’ just within 6 weeks, the new health blog has registered close to 19,000  readers without  acomments or likes.

As a matter of fact, liking or commenting on an article is very good but an author shouldn’t subject his mind to psychological pressure or be paranoid that his or her blog or contents are poor.

There are thousands of readers even though may like your article but will never show any  ‘like’ or leave a comment behind. However, they will always come back to read because they enjoy what you write.

In my opinion, ‘likes and comments’ from the same people or group reflecting on what you write every day may even affect your business if you are an entrepreneur.

Why the same group or people always comment on or like my article and what does it portray? These are some of the questions you need to ask yourself. Many bloggers are aware of what I am talking about the reason after some time you don’t see them liking or giving comment.

In my opinion, you can always be a successful blogger, not necessarily good contents but write subjects which aren’t common or different from other bloggers. Readers are not interested in an article which thousands of people have written. That will hurt you as a writer and even affect the desire to be a successful blogger.

It’s better you have two or three comments from an unknown reader than same people or group every day. If you are a writer experiencing this, then I’m sorry you will not get far with your blog, even though some few people may be successful with that.

This is the reason ‘Secrets Of Aids, Ebola, and Other Man-Made Diseases’ instantly became successful because we published articles or information  suppressed by governments but readers are hungry looking for something different to read.

We proudly present the International Award we had from Google Bloggers Directory last month.

http://secretsofaidsandebola.blogspot.be/

10 Remarkable Proverbs With A Moral Lesson

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A monkey in clothes

  1. Given the monkey, the opportunity to wear clothes doesn’t guarantee the animal to join the dining table. Meaning: Some people abuse their trust if you are kind to them. Don’t take a friend a fool if he helps you every time.

2. A man who hangs around a beautiful lady without saying anything, yet he likes her, will end up serving the guests on her wedding day. – Just be bold to tell a lady you like her if you’re interested in her.

3. A beautiful girl without any intelligence ends up abusing herself. Her private part suffers most. – You need to be intelligent too if you are beautiful, else you will end up sleeping with thousands of men to ruin the ‘golden box.’

4. Whoever presents his own head to break a coconut, would not be able to partake in eating of it. – This is a warning to be careful in whatever you do because some kindness may put you into a very big trouble.

5. There is no way a chicken will pass a corn or maize without swallowing it. Even if the corn is too big to swallow the beak will break it into pieces. If a friend offers you a sleeping place, be careful not to get closer to his wife because of temptation.

6. The buttocks are like a married couple. There is constant friction between them, yet they still love and live together. – There is no marriage or relationship without a dispute. If misunderstanding comes, settle it amicably before planning to divorce.

7. Never let negative people rent a space in your head. Raise the tent and kick them out. – You have the power to resist evil influence. Don’t follow bad friends to put you in a place you never wished to be there.

8. If one finds a wallet on the road and takes every money in it, before he finds the owner, there is no reward or blessing for you. Giving the owner all his money back will reveal your honesty for the owner to do something extraordinary for you. “This is what I did and the owner helped me to be employed. I’m still at the same place after twelve years.”

9. When you are doing well in life, climbing up with success, remember to help those you are leaving behind, one day if things go bad for you, they will remember what you did for them and they will help you too. – Be kind to the less fortunate ones, because no knows tomorrow.

10. The heart of a rich man lies in his wealth and that of the poor man lies in the faith of God. The reason poor people sleep better than the rich because they always think of their wealth. Jesus confirmed it.” It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of the needle than for a rich man to enter into the kingdom of God.”

The Obsession Of African Leaders Seeking Miracle Treatments Abroad

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Doctors fighting to save the life of a patient

Every year many African leaders seek medical treatment abroad but some don’t succeed

It’s unprofessional and absolutely lowest esteem for Africans, including the leaders to seek medical treatment overseas, while there are hundreds of doctors in Africa, who some had the  chance to study in Europe and America to be medical doctors.

African’s have been brainwashed that there is nothing good in the continent or whatever that is available is inferior, so as soon as any head of state falls sick, the only initiative they take is to seek treatment overseas.

Do African leaders know or have the statistics of Europeans and Americans who die daily in their hospitals? It’s a complete disgrace and humiliation to African doctors as head of states ignore them to seek medical treatments abroad when they are qualified to offer the same treatment some of the leaders seek abroad.

On many occasions, they don’t survive, leaving huge debts for the crumbling country to pay those medical bills. Africans usually accuse the white man of slavery, discrimination and racism, but they are part of their own misery disrespect and underestimation.

A couple of weeks ago, the  Burundian government spokesperson; Philippe Nzobonariba announced the death of former President Jean-Baptiste Bagaza in Belgium, after two weeks medical treatment.

This is not the first time an African leader has died overseas for medical treatment and it wouldn’t be the last. Why do African leaders continue to degrade and portray African doctors as useless or non-intelligent? Are they better than those in Africa who depend on their local doctors?

After slavery and colonization, Africa is far behind in development. Instead of the governments to embark on projects to improve the educational and health sectors, lavishly spendings and corruption continue to bring the continent to its knees.

“The most important thing is to try and inspire people so that they can be great in whatever they want to do.” This is a quote by Kobe Bryant which can change an entire nation if African leaders will encourage and support African doctors.

Surprising Invincible Enemies On Social Media

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The internet or the social media is the right place as a groundbreaking interactive marketplace and also an essential tool for people to access information and services right?

By the influence of the social media, we can now see the world through our windows, and enjoy effective and quick communication if the one lives thousands of kilometers away, but alongside its many valuable resources, the social media is occupied by invincible brood of vipers, whose aim to make sure that you never reach the top, hateful contents, offensive materials, black heart and treacherous people known as social media friends.

Frankly speaking, I wasn’t aware that the social media has its dark sides until I started writing. In a society whereby, ‘birds of the same feathers flock together’ you are not accepted if you look different. If that group is saying that ‘blue’ colour is ‘black,’ you need to agree with them to stay in the group.

Jesus said, “the truth shall set you free,” but in this present generation, the truth will give you many worries, discomfort and create a lot of enemies for you. I have said over and over that I may live in Europe for many years, but holding European passport doesn’t change my way of thinking, culture and identity. I am hundred percent true born African and proud to be an African.

Since I’m an African, my writings will reflect on my culture and issues affecting the African continent, which many European and American journalists will not do. This what many have failed to realize. Thus, writing the truth about Aids and Ebola shouldn’t generate hatred, because I’m an African, not European or American.

There are hundreds of scientists in this world, who are aware that the viruses of Aids and Ebola were biologically prepared as bio-weapons and tested on Africans by the Americans, yet only one scientist, the Dutch Johan Van Dongen revealed the truth and it costs him dearly. After losing his job as lecturer in the university of Maastricht, he became an enemy and his profile was deleted for the social media ‘LinkedIn.’

European and American journalists write distasteful and degrading articles about Africa, yet when an African writer reveals their weaknesses, corruption, inefficiency, racism, hypocrisy and their devilish plans against Africa, then everyone becomes angry. Thousands of Europeans and American commit suicide daily, if an African writer suggests, Europeans and Americans should learn from Africa how they have survived persecutions, diseases long before the white man’s medicine were discovered, then everyone is angry.

Recently, in United Voice News Magazine, a journalist wrote ‘9 Out Of 10 Americans Would Perish Without Power For Over A Year If The Isis strikes.’ I pointed out that this is a total disgrace to Americans if they will depend on electricity current to survive, knowing that there are thousands of villagers in Africa, who have never enjoyed light before since they were born, yet they are the healthiest and happiest people on earth. From school, they learn, read and write with the help of only kerosene lanterns. The link: https://goo.gl/5pAAFF

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Rural African students study with the help of a kerosene lantern and some become doctors and engineers

This article sparked another controversy and generated hatred towards me. So now every truth generates hatred because the truth hurts? If Europe  and America called themselves ‘Super-powers’ that doesn’t mean that no African journalist or writer shouldn’t expose or write against the destruction and pain they have inflicted on innocent people in Africa?

In fact, the mainstream media in Europe and America have contributed to the endless problems including terrorism and the threat of terrorism Europeans and Americans are experiencing today, because they hate to write the truth, above all they support crime.

There will be a time Europe and America will sit and say “Had we know,” but that will be too late because the weight of the destruction of the two continents will be too severe to handle.

THE VALUE OF SUMMER AS BOTH SEASON AND FESTIVAL

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Mini-skirts: One of the fashion temptations during summer

There are only two seasons in West Africa, the dry and the wet, and sometimes the experience of the harmattan, a dry, dusty cold north-east trade winds from December to February. 

Africa never misses the sun or summer as it is known among the four seasons in Europe and America because the sun blazes for nine months, accompanied by rainfall within three months.

Unfortunately, sometimes the rain fails to fall, and when it continues for a longer period, means impending danger. The reason East Africa is often threatened by worst drought. Rwanda, Ethiopia, Eritrea, Zambia, Somalia etc, have all experienced the effect of drought.

The sun in Africa is used to doing many things including drying of washed clothes, preservation of foods, and on health issues good for the skin. Since the sun is very common in Africa, they don’t see or value it as something special, but when summer arrives in Europe and America, it’s like they have seen magic or god.

In fact, summer is just a season but what accompanies with it in Europe and America seems like the season is a festival. Europeans and Americans go crazy with all kinds of dresses and fashions which may baffle you.

Mini-skirts, the exposure of long beautiful legs and other parts of the body which can steal your attention and put you into temptation are some of the common scenes in the city, shopping malls, restaurants, cinema halls etc, and at the naked beaches.

Europe is now entering the summer but just yesterday the beautiful weather brought some fashions one may be stupefied to see. The question is: What are we going to see when summer fully arrives? I will definitely steal a glance but hoping I will not be caught by any lady.